The only way out of this mess is to stop the hate and division. There are forces working to divide us into factions and they are succeeding: black/white, gay/straight, Christian/ashiest, Republican/Democrat, conservative/liberal, etc. We all need to take a breath and realizes that each of us is a human being. We can disagree without being disagreeable. It's simple. It's just hard. Still, if we try, we can do it.